Scientology - Disconnection Hurts


Wednesday, 16th September, 2009 01:22:04am

Name or Alias: maubi
How long ago was your disconnection? 10 years so far
Are you a current member, an ex-member, or never a member?
never a member
Did you disconnect, or did someone disconnect from you?
The other person disconnected.
1. What is (or was) your relationship to the disconnected person?
son, aged 38.

2. What were the circumstances surrounding the disconnection?
son was fine until he married a lifelong scientologist. Then slowly he became indoctrinated. Now I only see him for 3 days every year at Christmas--without his wife.

3. Were you given a choice about disconnecting? Was there anything you could have done to avoid the disconnection? If so, please describe the choice involved or what you could have done. Do you now feel that you made the best decision?
No. His wife wrote an antagonistic letter to me. She plays emotional blackmail with him.

4. Was a formal disconnection letter sent? If so, what did it say? If not, how was the disconnection communicated?
Not yet.

5. In what way has the disconnection affected your life?
Terrible sadness, day after day.

6. What were your feelings at the time about the disconnection?
Anger, grief, frustration.

7. What are your current feelings about the disconnection?

8. Has there been an attempt at reconnection? Were there any conditions for reconnecting? If there was an attempt, did you succeed at reconnecting?
Occasional long tearful argumentative intense phone calls

9. If you are currently disconnected, would you like to reconnect? Do you believe it is possible, in your particular case? If not, why?
Yes, but impossible as long as he is married to her.

Would you like to make any additional comments?
Life is short. In twenty years when I am 80, he will wake up and realize that we lost out on a lot of fun family times.

Disconnection Story Number: 17
Total Disconnection Stories: 26
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